When I started my career, I often felt intimidated by people with impressive titles or sophisticated business attire. I believed I had to act differently because I didn’t look or sound like them. However, through various networking experiences and trial and error, I learned how to overcome these challenges. Here are some tips to help you do the same:
Tip #1: Remember, they’re just people.
I used to think that people with impressive titles were untouchable, almost superhuman. But that’s not true. Those who attend networking events are there to help and answer questions. Believe it or not, they are also there to learn just like us. Many have been in your shoes and all of them are human, just like us.
Tip #2: Be yourself.
As cliché as it sounds, be yourself! When networking, people expect authenticity. Don’t create a different version of yourself. Instead, use your current abilities and incorporate them into your interactions.
Tip #3: Be confident, not arrogant.
Yes, others may look polished, but everyone feels nervous. Confidence means recognizing your unique strengths and sharing what you bring to the table. However, also show interest in what others have to share—they have valuable insights too.
Remember, it’s just like the first day of school, except we’re making friends and forming connections in a more formal setting!
– Cura, L.